A feedee is another name for a feeder or a person that deliberately gains weight because of metal or emotional issues that create a positive feeling for the subject when they gain excessive amounts of weight. The feedee will have what is more commonly known as a fat fetish. Sexual gratification through weight gain is how the feedee relieves sexual tension either own their own or through partnering with another feedee. There is a big difference between fat fetishism and fat acceptance because generally people you are obese or overweight know that they have a problem with weight. Fat acceptance is not of sexual nature and is nothing to do with deliberately gaining weight such as a feedee will do. The feedee is to the feeder.
The feedee will generally be the submissive partner in the relationship and uses their eating and being forced to eat to sexually gratify their partner. Feedee followings have their own social websites and other informal way of gathering and meeting with each other. There have been many horrific stories of men preying on feedee aka gainers who are not themselves interested in the feedee fetish but use the sites to satisfy their own needs through manipulation and deception. Luckily however there are also support groups and psychological counseling for many who wish to break bad habits.
The sexual act of feedee and feeders through eating is said to be very disrespectful to the normally women that are the feedee. These women are degraded and used until fat fetish is no longer fun for the feeder or until the feedee starts to have complications from being excessively overweight. Generally feedee websites are of a sexual content and should not be viewed by people under 18 years of age or 21 years in some states of America.